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A Love That Lays Down Its Life: The Mission Field of Foster Care

We believe that every child deserves the stability of a Christ-centered homeā€”one that provides them with faith, hope, and love, the greatest of these being love.

This belief is more than just words. In just the last 60 days of 2024, Chaplain Ted had the opportunity to lead over 100 foster parents into a commitment with Christ. And because of the generosity of their financial partners, they have had over 12,000 opportunities to increase the stability of children in foster care across 800 cities in the United States.

Foster care is a mission fieldā€”one that requires sacrificial love, faith, and courage. And few exemplify this better than Jennifer and Jeffrey Bernhard.

A Life Laid Down: The Story of Jennifer Bernhard

The Bernhards have been faithful members of Brighton Assembly of God for over 12 years.

Jennifer led a girlsā€™ Bible study.

Jeffrey served as a church deacon.

They saw foster care as their mission field, a way to bring the love of Jesus to vulnerable children.

And then, tragedy struck.

Wednesday, January 1, 2025 ā€“ A Night of Horror

On New Yearā€™s Day, at 8:30 p.m., three armed intruders forced their way into the Bernhardsā€™ home in Northfield Township, Michigan. Among them was the biological mother of the 4-year-old foster child in their care.

The attack was brutal.

ā€¢ Jennifer Bernhard, 48, and her father, Stevie Ray Smith, 74, were fatally shot.

ā€¢ Jeffrey, 52, was shot twiceā€”once in the chest and once in the faceā€”but miraculously survived.

ā€¢ The 4-year-old foster child and the Bernhardsā€™ 9-year-old biological daughter were abducted.

Jenniferā€™s last act was one of ultimate sacrifice, laying down her life to protect her family.

Thursday, January 2, 2025 ā€“ The Children Rescued

By the next morning, law enforcement had found both children alive and safe.

One was found in a home; the other was located with two of the suspects in a vehicle.

Friday, January 3, 2025 ā€“ A Chilling Courtroom Moment

As the suspects faced charges, the biological mother of the foster child, Shuvonne Vinson, made a shocking statement in court:

ā€œThey deserved to die.ā€

The evil behind this tragedy was undeniable.

Friday, January 10, 2025 ā€“ Remembering Jennifer

The community came together to grieve and honor Jennifer.

Her close friend, Katherine Meyer, described her this way:

ā€œShe loved others so well because her love was a reflection of who Jesus is.ā€

Jennifer was a woman of faith, kindness, and sacrifice.

Her final Facebook post was about kindnessā€”how her family had been blessed by others and how she encouraged people to care for those in need.

She truly lived out John 15:13:

ā€œGreater love has no one than this: to lay down oneā€™s life for oneā€™s friends.ā€

The Foster Care Mission Field

Jennifer and Jeffrey understood their mission field.

They were not overseas missionaries, like the Santiagos, who moved across the ocean to plant a church in Alicante, Spain.

They were not training families, like the Stackpoles, bringing the gospel to the foster and adoption communities across the U.S.

But they were missionaries nonetheless.

Acts 1:8 reminds us:

ā€œBut you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.ā€

For the Bernhards, their Jerusalem was foster care.

They knew the cost.

They knew the risks.

And they were willing to lay down their lives for the mission.

Jenniferā€™s story is heartbreaking. But in tragedy, we must ask:

Who needs Jesus in this story?

ā€¢ The foster child who has only known instability and trauma since birth?

ā€¢ The biological mother, lost in anger and evil?

ā€¢ The neighbor across the street, watching the Bernhardsā€™ love in action?

The answer is all of them.

Because love shines the brightest in the darkest places.

Matthew 5:16 reminds us:

ā€œIn the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.ā€

Jenniferā€™s light shined even in her final moments.

The Challenge for Us All

The Bernhard familyā€™s story is a challenge to us all.

ā€¢ To love sacrificially.

ā€¢ To serve courageously.

ā€¢ To be the hands and feet of Jesus in the broken places of the world.

Because foster care is one of the most broken mission fields in our country.

The children who enter foster care have been:

ā€¢ Neglected

ā€¢ Abused

ā€¢ Traumatized

They need:

ā€¢ Safety

ā€¢ Stability

ā€¢ The love of Christ

But let me be clearā€”this is not an easy calling.

Foster parents:

ā€¢ Step into the messiest situations.

ā€¢ Love children who may never stay.

ā€¢ Build bridges with biological families who may be hostile or broken.

ā€¢ Take risks.

The Bernhards took that risk.

They laid down their livesā€”just as Christ laid down His life for us.

Romans 12:1:

ā€œTherefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of Godā€™s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to Godā€”this is your true and proper worship.ā€

As you read this, I want to ask you:

Where is your mission field?

Maybe itā€™s not foster care.

Maybe itā€™s:

ā€¢ Your workplace

ā€¢ Your school

ā€¢ Your own family

But for some of you, maybe God is calling you into foster care and adoption.

Itā€™s not easy.

But itā€™s worth it.

And for others, maybe you canā€™t bring children into your homeā€”but you can support those who do.

ā€œEvery effort, every prayer, and every financial gift helps us move closer to the day when every child experiences the love of Jesus.ā€

Jenniferā€™s Story Will Not Be Forgotten

Jennifer Bernhard is a martyr of our faith.

Her story will continue to be told.

Because her lifeā€”and her sacrificeā€”point us back to the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus Christ.

And as long as there are children in need, as long as there are families willing to answer the callā€”we will not stop sharing the gospel in the foster and adoption community.

Because this mission field is worth it.

And every child deserves to know: faith, hope, and loveā€”the greatest of these being love.

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